Late-June Lamorinda hills in the first day of the sunset retreat

It is Monday, June 29, at 7:38 AM, and the picnic blanketthe navy-with-cream-stripes understudy, six feet by four feet, the blanket that made its Moraga Commons debut last night at the 8:37 PM apexis folded on top of the dryer in the laundry room. It has one small grass stain at the southeast corner. Nobody has noticed yet. Nobody is going to notice for about three days. The bandshell blanket is still in Akron on the grandfather’s lap. The picnic blanket has been promoted, in one Sunday evening, from linen-closet understudy to active member of the rotation. Promotions in this household are quiet. They happen on dryers.

This is the day after the apex. Tonight’s sunset, on paper, is 8:37 PM also — the calendar holds the apex two evenings in a row, June 28 and June 29, to the minute. Three people in Lamorinda know this. The retired engineer in Glorietta is one of them. The mother is another, and she is keeping this information to herself this morning the way a person keeps a small good secret to themselves on a Monday. The third, the Saint Mary’s physics professor who runs the seasonal-light spreadsheet, is at this moment looking at his sheet at the kitchen table on Bollinger Canyon Road, sipping coffee, satisfied. Tomorrow’s sunset is 8:36. That is the minute the calendar comes back to take. Starting tomorrow night, Lamorinda loses about a minute a week, slowly at first, then faster through August, then much faster through September, until the June-gloom timeline reverses itself in October and it’s dark at 6:30 PM again. The retreat begins tomorrow. Today is the last day of the hold.

7:48 AM — The Subaru, Monday Mode

The Subaru is in Monday mode, which is a different mode from Sunday-market mode in exactly four respects: the canvas totes are not in the passenger footwell (they are in the trunk, folded, the green-handled one nested inside the natural-handled one), the periscope is on the back seat next to the booster instead of on the kid’s lap (Monday is not a periscope-deployed day, Monday is a periscope-resting day, the kid has somehow internalized this), the cooler is not in the cargo area (Thursday is the cooler day), and the Spotify is on the school-year morning playlist even though school is out, because muscle memory is more durable than the school calendar. The kid is in the booster. The dog is on the kitchen floor. Both of them know what today is in a way that does not require being told. Today is camp.

8:02 AM — Camp Week 3 Drop-Off, the Glide

Week 1 was chaos. Week 2 was clean. Week 3 is invisible. The drop-off lane at the Hacienda at 8:02 AM is moving at a steady nine-second cycledown from twelve last week, down from forty-five on opening day. The counselor with the Sharpie has been promoted twice in two weeks and is now, this morning, holding a clipboard instead of a marker. The clipboard is the move. A new counselor — younger, hired Sunday, in a fresh staff polo with the Moraga Commons crest still bright on the chest — has the Sharpie. She is writing the same name three times. That is correct. That is, in fact, exactly what Week 3 is supposed to do for Week 1’s counselor. The Subaru pulls up at 8:03:11. The kid bails out with the backpack and the labeled water bottle. The new counselor checks the clipboard, finds the name, waves. The Subaru is on Moraga Way heading south by 8:03:20. Nine seconds. The mother does not look back. The kid does not look back either. That is the Week 3 milestone the camp brochure never mentions.

9:14 AM — Loard’s Moraga, the Closed Door

The Subaru detours, on the way home, past the Rheem Center at 9:14 AM. Loard’s Moraga is closed on Mondays. The kid is not in the car for this detour, which is fortunate, because the closed Loard’s on a Monday is a parenting trap of the highest order. The mother is alone in the Subaru and is using the detour for an entirely different reason: she wants to look at the Rheem Center marquee. The marquee, this morning, says “INDEPENDENCE DAY WEEKEND — FIREWORKS SAT JULY 4, MORAGA COMMONS, 9:30 PM”. The mother reads it twice. She does the math on the picnic blanket, the bandshell blanket (in Akron, returning Wednesday), the cooler (Thursday’s job), the visiting in-laws (arriving Friday night), the kid’s bedtime (9:30 PM is past it, which is part of the appeal). She does this math in about eleven seconds, at the stop sign at Rheem Boulevard and Moraga Road, and arrives at the conclusion that the bandshell blanket will be needed by Saturday. The grandfather, in Akron, does not know this yet. He will.

10:30 AM — Diablo Foods, the First Stirring

Diablo Foods on Mt. Diablo Boulevard at 10:30 AM on this Monday is slightly busier than a normal Monday, and the composition tells the story. The grandfathers from last week are mostly gone — the visit-extensions ended over the weekend, the Akron grandfather flew out Wednesday, the four-grandfathers-on-the-reservoir-loop cluster has dispersed back to their respective home airports. In their place, on the floor of Diablo Foods at 10:34 AM, are the first stirrings of Fourth-of-July-week prep: one woman in the bakery aisle with a pre-order slip for two flag cakes for July 4, one man at the meat counter asking the butcher about brisket quantities for sixteen people, one couple in the wine aisle holding two rosés and a sauvignon blanc and a quiet disagreement about whether they need the third bottle. They need the third bottle. They are going to figure this out by 10:41 AM. The bakery pre-order whiteboard, behind the counter, has gone from one entry on Saturday to seven entries this morning. The flag-cake economy of Lamorinda is, on the Monday five days before July 4, opening its books.

11:50 AM — The Reservoir, the Monday Composition

By 11:50 AM the Lafayette Reservoir lot is at about 30%, which is canonically a Monday number. The composition is back to normal-Monday baselinethe work-from-home midday-loop cohort, the older couples in the good walking shoes, the two trail-runners who do every Monday at exactly 12:08 PM no matter the weather. The grandfather-overflow from the Father’s-Day-plus-one Monday is gone. The Monday after the apex is, statistically, the least crowded Monday on the loop between Memorial Day and Labor Day: the graduation grandfathers have flown home, the visiting in-laws have not yet arrived for the Fourth, the locals are pacing themselves for a five-day onramp. This is the loop’s quietest hour of the summer. It will not be this quiet again until late September.

1:40 PM — The Quiet Hour

By 1:40 PM the kid is not yet home (camp pickup is 3:00 PM at the Hacienda), the dog is on the gray chair on the back deck, the same chair, the same slant, and the cooler is back on the dad’s mind in the garage. He opens it this time. He does not put anything in it yet. He just looks inside, checks the drain plug, brushes a small piece of dried grass off the floor of the cooler, and closes the lid. That is the Monday version of Thursday preparation. The medium backpack from yesterday is back on its hook above the cooler. Tonight is not a backpack night either. Tonight, the calendar’s last hold on the apex, is not — paradoxically — a bandshell night. Tonight is a back-deck night. The Adirondack chair faces west. The dad knows this. The dad will be in that chair at 8:31 PM with a small whiskey and a quiet feeling about a minute.

8:37 PM — The Apex Holds, One More Time

At 8:37 PM the sun touches the western ridge over the Berkeley Hills and the minute holds, for the second night running. The dad is in the Adirondack chair. The mother is at the kitchen window with a cup of tea. The kid is in his room with the periscope on the nightstand pointed at the ceiling fan. The dog is on the back deck, on the gray chair, watching the dad watch the ridge. The picnic blanket is on top of the dryer, still folded, still with the small grass stain at the southeast corner. The retired engineer in Glorietta is on his patio. The Saint Mary’s physics professor is on Bollinger Canyon Road on his deck. Three people in Lamorinda are watching this minute deliberately. Everybody else is watching it without knowing they are watching it.

Tomorrow night at 8:36 PM the minute comes back. That is the start of the long slow walk to October. Tonight, for one more evening, the calendar is still at the top. The dad raises the small whiskey to the ridge. Nobody sees him do this. That is the entire point.

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